Practicing alone usually means we don't practice at all

weekly message Sep 04, 2020

Hafiz writes,

A hunting party
Sometimes has a greater chance
Of flushing love and God
Out into the open
Than a warrior
All Alone

There is a distorted understanding of the spiritual journey that says we have to walk it all by ourselves. It says that meditation and prayer are solitary practices and that you are solely responsible for your journey into God. And there is a certain appeal to this vision. It plays to our heroic fantasies of the warrior willing to scale the mountain and fight the dragon. It is a test of the individual. But what is this dragon the spiritual warrior is allegedly fighting?

The dragon is the belief that we are separate. The dragon is the delusion of our minds that says we are not an interrelated, interpenetrated Being. The warrior is fighting through the delusion so they might come to understand that they are part of a unified whole.

They are fighting against the isolation of the self. Which makes this fantasy of the lone warrior so curious. If you truly want to...

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We Need More Chaplains

weekly message Aug 26, 2020

About 10 years ago I was on a clergy retreat in the middle of the woods in New Hampshire. And I was sitting by the fire with a mentor who had been guiding me for over 10 years at that point. He lived the type of life I aspired to and I took every opportunity I could to listen to him. But at one point, he turned to me with a very troubled look on his face, tears were actually welling up in his eyes. He was so concerned about the changing climate, the rising numbers of refugees, the racism and the fracturing civil society. And he said, “We need more chaplains. What are you doing to create more chaplains.” I was really struck by this idea, I mean, I am still talking about it 10 years later. But at the time I was also overwhelmed by the scope of what he was asking. And I was living within this paradigm of certifications and diplomas. Chaplain was a professional position in my mind and I couldn’t see how I could ever help create a world of chaplains.

But over the years,...

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When the Government is the Abuser

weekly message Aug 11, 2020

A few days ago, President Trump's new Postmaster General Louis DeJoy fired all of the top managers of the USPS in what is being called the Friday Night Massacre. DeJoy’s appointment was loudly criticized as part of a scheme to undermine the Postal Service as an institution. He has no prior experience with the USPS, except as a rival. DeJoy owns perhaps as much as $75 million in assets that are direct competitors with the Post Office, such as UPS. His appointment is viewed by many as a hit job. That is, he was hired to dismantle the USPS, not to make it stronger. The decision to gut the Postal Service of its leadership not only leaves it ineffective against private companies, it is also an attempt to sabotage this election, perhaps the most important election of our lifetimes, by making it incapable of dealing with the influx of absentee ballots people will cast this year due to COVID.

But DeJoy is only one in a long line of politicians who have been elected or appointed over...

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Aligning the Inner and Outer Landscapes

weekly message Aug 05, 2020

Several years ago, I read an account of a psychological test performed on Israeli soldiers. Three platoons were marched into the desert. The first platoon set out with no instruction and marched for 20 miles not knowing when it would end or what the point of the exercise was. The second platoon was told they were going to march for 10 miles but once they had completed that first 10 were told they then had to then march a second 10 miles. The third platoon was told from the very beginning they were going to march 20 miles in the desert and were updated along the way about their progress. These were all soldiers of equal physical ability and stamina, but the effects of the uncertainty had a powerful and potent impact on their well-being. The third platoon, the one that knew how far they were marching from the very beginning and saw that promise kept were tired, as we all might be, but otherwise fine. The second platoon, the one that knew the distance for each leg, but had the initial...

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I've been having a hard time sleeping recently

weekly message Jul 29, 2020

I've been having a hard time sleeping recently. In part, because it's been so hot and I don't sleep well in the heat. But I also think that the stress of the ongoing pandemic, our chaotic political situation, and a growing sense of isolation from the people I care about have all been wearing on me. It is a slow gnaw that is particularly dangerous because it's hard to see it happening. Most of my days look just like the one before it and look like the one that's coming. And, for the most part, my life is okay. From a day-to-day perspective, it would be hard to pinpoint where the problem is, but I've been having a hard time sleeping. So I know something is up. 

I share this with you to let you know that you're not alone if this is something that you've been going through also. I have a number of friends who seem to be wrestling with a nameless inquietude. I suppose we could point a finger at the military actions in Portland, or perhaps the ending of federal assistance...

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Meditation Gives Me a Chance

weekly letter Jul 21, 2020


Meditation gives me a chance. It gives me a chance to notice the influences guiding my thinking. If I am able to notice these influences, and I have the willingness to be generous, then I can act in ways that are not only helpful to the world but make me happy as well. Meditation gives me a chance to align my intentions for how I want to behave with my behavior. 

A regular meditation practice promises nothing. I know, only too well, how lost I can get on the way to realizing my intentions for how I want to behave in the world, how misaligned my actions can be from my ideals. Nevertheless, I am grateful for the chance.

All around us we see a terrible misalignment in the world, an absence of integrity that arises out of not paying attention to the influences guiding our thinking. I truly believe everyone, without exception, wants to be happy and that we are at our happiest when we are helping others because that is when the barriers between our isolated selves and...

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Praise the Mutilated World

sermon Jun 14, 2020
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For those who are white, repentance is the path

sermon Jun 08, 2020
Liberation theology for white people is a theology of surrender and repentance. There are, however, at least three ways that we can help those who have been oppressed as we attempt to walk the path of our repentance.
  1. We must make reparations to the descendants of those who were enslaved and to those who lived on these shores when the Europeans arrived. I do not know what this looks like. And it would be inappropriate for me to say what this looks like. The oppressor does not get to set the terms when trying to make amends. Agency means the party who was harmed gets to determine how amends, and in this case, reparations are made.
  2. We must defund the police. I do not believe in police reform. Policing in the United States was created to exploit some and enrich others. Reform is not enough. The wheel must be broken and a new creation put in its place.
  3. We must support the political empowerment of Black people. If the change in public opinion from when Eric Garner and Michael Brown...
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Thank You For Your Service

Uncategorized May 29, 2020

As is our tradition, we recognize those who have given their lives in service of our nation this Sunday. However, we will expand the idea of service to include those on the front lines of the COVID-19 pandemic.

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Being Known by the Sacred

together Apr 13, 2020

There is a difference between knowing about the Sacred and knowing the Sacred. The thing is, it is so much easier to know about the Sacred. Our lives are filled with voices knowing about the Sacred when what we really long for is to know the Sacred, to be known by the Sacred, to feel the transformative experience when we are cracked open and, as a being, as humanity, understand the living awareness of life.

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